Divorce
Life is going as usual on a daily routine with a little pinch and joy. Now I have entered into our 10th year of marriage with My power of love Sandra. We both blindly in love with each other. We'd dated almost for 5years huuhh a long time don't you think.
After spending so much time together we took the decision to combine two souls in one and got happily married.

She cares about me a lot whenever I feel restless, tense. she's there for me 24*7 but all of sudden everything got changed you can say blown away my peace and love.

I don't know what happened between us. The love, care, positivity, happiness, togetherness all fainted in a second.

Now we don't like to face each other for not even a single second. She is never my love. I m really fed up. And sometimes I remember those previous love days where we didn't stay without each other.

Huhhh all looks like a nightmare.

I think she didn't like me the way it was. sometimes I feel all those feelings were vague. She might be having some other priorities. Now I won't say I'm in love with her.

I execrate myself that how I could love someone like her. I made the biggest mistake of my life and now I want to divorce.

If all of you thinking that who is he then let me tell you he is one of my close friends, he has been suffering from a tough time where his marriage is on the edge of Divorce.

What is Marriage & Divorce

A marriage is a beautiful bond where two different soul mates connect with each other and exchange their feelings.

On the other hand, Divorce is the opposite of Marriage, no one would say that I want a divorce but when couples want to separate from each other they have to spilt by the way of Divorce.

By helping my close mate we want to tell you, those who have been suffering from the same situation of Marriage separation that how you could save your love relation by doing some changes in your marriage life and protect it from Divorce.

It has been developed with the sole purpose of helping you navigate through different relationship challenges. It's our pleasure to be able to dive into different topics that at the end of the day will help you in one way or the other.

Today I am going to try to elaborate, Why the prospect of a divorce can actually signal the beginning of a very healthy marriage and you're probably saying you're crazy!!!

But I'm not. As who all have read above how my friend had suffered and survived. Some of you totally agree with this and some of you may not.

Factors of top Divorce Reasons

Many times we just navigate through our marriage and we just you know not really pay attention to our romantic game for couple. We take each other for granted and we really think that it's eternal love and for whatever reason, we stopped paying attention. So why is it an unbelievable blessing in disguise? It allows you to unveil the denial factor that you have a "great marriage". It forces one to address issues that we have decided to ignore.

Anything from a lack of affection to literally taking each other for granted to just simply not doing something special and not even have time to say at least I love you baby. Sometimes we treat our business partners our friends and sometimes more than friends you know what I mean hmmm, by twisting the eyes!! right guess

That we relate to in our mundane world with nicer than we treat our spouses and it's because we just feel that well we married them, here I'm talking about the male and female both.

This is anyone there's, that's my .... she/he is not going to go anywhere and it's not a love making couple.

Here, I've demonstrated my commitment no not necessarily a commitment is something that we really need to work on all the time and bring it in a new energy. Just as we change daily and we mature.
Ready To Love
Changes Necessary During Marriage

What was important to us at the very beginning of our marriage may not be important to us now, and it's true no one would take it the way it was. We need to evolve in the "emotional platform" with our spouses, it must have been love.

Moreover, it's important to have this shock syndrome because all of a sudden we said they asked me for a divorce?

This shock sometimes makes you realize the importance of your partner, the love sayings that you both exchanged, happy time, sensuality, care, hard times all these thoughts came like a picture in your mind. and if you haven't burned a lot of bridges there's a way of being able to at some point, make them change their mind.

Ways that Save Your Marriage
So one of the ways is literally first and foremost
  • do not "manipulate the issue",
  • do not "control with the children",
  • do not create "financial burdens" that are unnecessary in order to keep them connected to one.
My suggestion is to focus on your part of "your participation" and what has gone wrong and that is all part of, having a successful "accountability communication", You are showing your powerless mentality to your spouse but be clear that it doesn't pull the frame of mind,

Wow!! I apologize I didn't see it was happening in between us what should I change now don't know, however, if I will change that really matter now coz its the result and it's only there for us.

Moreover, then we actually realize the importance of our partner it was too late and they're gone too far from us...sadly!!

Our marriage bond, children all things fall into pieces, our dream marriage, desires, going to have vanished in a single second, woo! woo! woo! hold on it's another wake-up buzz.

cling! cling! cling! cling!

listen up I'm not happy, I'm leaving and you all of a sudden are forced to pay the attention that perhaps you've neglected and we sometimes neglect it without realizing it.

Our world, our jobs, the kids that's it. Our life is only roaming around these. But we have to remember that at the very beginning of our relationship we looked for each other by saying I love yoo and we need to be mature enough and know that we can't really do that. Coz somehow we had a little love box connection between us.

Realistically but have a date night make sure to implement things that are only between "you and your spouse" it's so important to create a solid foundation towards a loving and healthy future relationship. Do exchange some private moments ready to love with your spouse, that re-gain your love life and also start caring, appreciate your spouse if he/she does something special for you. Always give importance to them. Start giving surprises that give your marriage a different way.

So here you've got a divorce that's looking at you and you can spin it and say to yourself hmm know what we're gonna do is we're gonna focus on getting rid of this relationship with by the way is worth. Getting rid of because it has brought you to this step of getting a divorce or if contemplating a divorce and what we're gonna do is we're gonna focus on the two important factors to save your marriage relationship is you and your spouse.

Just remember again only you and your partner.

With it, build a new foundation, build a new marriage so that in above itself that whole situation you both have been sort of camouflaging has been remedied.

Furthermore, You can both create happiness because it's not about love. We always have this whole thing my love for you well but we love each other that's not enough. The thread which keeps it together is keeping each other happy.

let's turn this whole divorce situation into probably the best thing that could have ever happened to you.

We wish you all the luck and hope this lil advice would change your divorce to start into a happy relationship once again.

Try these simple and effective changes in your marriage life and make the best out of it, feel free to ask any advice just leave the comment below, we are always available for help.