How To Take A Relationship Slow

A balanced pace is the lifeline of a relationship, it involves two fully mature persons who aren't in a hurry to reach anywhere. Are you conscious about your relationship coz it's running too fast, Thus, how to take a relationship slow, it's something which is very tuned in the mid of the relationship.

Take a relationship slow means?

Taking a relationship slow means all combination like,

1) Intimacy
2) Connection
3) Feelings
4) Commitments
5) Togetherness

Move gradually in relation to be the one,  feels comfortable in both ways. Both partners must involve equally in taking the relationship slow, for healthy relationship developments in love connection experience.

Relationships first are taken really really fast is because of the two facts,

a) It's a big growth hormone rush

b) It's something that we have become addicted to

Because we're also seeking relationship attention or companionship so much that we actually forget there is a natural pace in love connection. Typically when things happen too fast really above eighty or ninety percent of the time it doesn't really end up working out.

The reason being is because

·   It's not sustainable

·   It's not natural

Typically what happens is there's a hormone rush but when reality sets in its kind of like you have to pull back or withdraw and go back to what's normal but if you haven't experienced something normal it's hard to go back.

If you don't even know that existed in the first place with that person. 

So remember, the attraction is pacing or steady yourself.

There's nothing wrong getting to know a girl, meeting her and maybe you guys slept together but then pulling back the first night and also showing her that you're gonna take on a date probably next week, though not spending every minute after exchanged the special moments there's a significant difference in the process.

So it's the biggest cause where your relationship is moving too fast.

How to slow down a relationship, In order to take it slow after going fast like how do you retract or pull back...

It's once something in a fast relationship happens which you can call, the lustful or lubricious relationships. To maintain your relationship pace, you have to pull back no matter what you've got to pull back, get into a path that you were in before.

So continuing to do your own personal work or going back into your own thing. Make sure your priorities are in line now, it's the first thing how you take a relationship slow by assigning your priorities.

One of the biggest things to before you get there is if this woman has pushed you away like,

=> We're just moving too fast or this all just happened too fast this is too scary 

But typically there's a rise of emotions either you got emotional with her and you wanted something very fast but you got to retract or draw in to ask yourself why am I forcing a relationship on to someone or asking a relationship on to someone that I barely even know.

So what happens here, as a female or that woman which you were dating you don't have standards, it's just easy maybe you're like this with other girls as well and there's no real value in being with you because you haven't showcase of value for women yet.

Sometimes that's hard to find here but it's really the truth guys, what I want you to understand a little bit more into how to recover after this,

·   You've really got to move on

I'm not saying that you're not gonna be with this woman again but you got to move on, in the "Loyalty Stage" so you proceed to figure out your

=> Attachment style,  

There have been four attachment styles named

1.    Secure

2.   Dismissing

3.   Anxious

4.   Disorganized

Note - If you attach to women quickly, then you should be careful about your fast actions to avoid a stressful situation that moves the relationship too fast, So can you change your attachment style coz it must!!! to maintain the relationship rhythm.

One of the biggest things here is,

Understanding -  You mentally have to give up on this woman in order to take it back slow because when you're going into something so hot and heavy less full and fast it's because you didn't have any brakes so now you got to retrain yourself, but those brakes back on.

Let me tell you, How do you put the brakes back on?

You can brake on in three ways,

a) Decline the situation
b) Release attachment
c) Let go expectations of an outcome with this woman

Then you naturally slowly start to poke in there and court her back again.

Advice - Do things in the process, do things in the pace. Take your time without forgetting who you are, your goals your day-to-day activities.

Later on, there can be a situation where a woman will even ask you or even explore once you adapt changes because She isn't aware of this.

She might say, you were interested two weeks ago and now you're not paying attention to me or nor asking me for a date.

There's so much honesty when you voice your truth and be assertive or self-confident with women.

This is what a lot of men are failed at, it's typically scared off because they don't want to be needy or they don't want to come off as a disrespectful guy which I would never inspire you to do but when you say

=> What's on your truth with respect
=> What's on your mind with respect it comes off as positive

You can say something simple like this, listen it wasn't like me to take that fast, I really want to get to know you and I know that in order to get to know it's gonna take the time I enjoy your company, that's why I continue to ask you out if you want to do this with me let's do it.

You're saying exactly what's on your mind as you're also coming from a respectful manner, moreover what you want it's the man with the planning mentality.

Special Advice - If you can control your mind you can rule your emotions as well as actions. If you give better justification to your partner than your relationship pace moves on a line in an appropriate manner not too fast in danger or nor losing yourself in a relationship.

Remember a healthy relationship includes good communication, fairness, and trust for a flourishing relationship, a perfect term is "Be Slow but sure" wait until your partner gets comfortable with you.

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