Signs She Wants You Back But Is Scared
Signs she wants you back but is scared, So here are few signs that she's afraid of,

=> Recommitting
=> Getting back together


She scared that things might go the way they did before.

First and the foremost sign is, She may ask about your,

a) love life
b) Dating S
tages or have you been dating someone?
c) About relationship, Oh hey, I noticed you talking to that person over there. Are you into that person?

Things & ask questions like this. She may ask about things like this simultaneously while also keeping a little bit of an "emotional distance".

This is pretty common. It shows they're invested and interested in your love life again, but they're also keeping that distance because 
  • it's fear, 
  • it's a concern,
  • it's worry about what things might look like in the future that's holding them back. So it's definitely something going on there.
Second Sign is She takes an interest in your future even though she might be not actively moving towards it, she might take an interest in your future in terms of following up on certain things that maybe

=> You mentioned are happening in your life
=> With your career
=> In various areas of your life

so forth, but she might not necessarily be making moves towards those sorts of things. Definitely, also something to keep an eye out there.

It shows, 
  1. She is thinking about your future, 
  2. She has been thinking about you in their future because we're all kind of "self-interested",
  3. You are occupying a space in their mind for the future. 
So they're wondering how your future is going to look with her and how it might relate to their future.

Another way is, you may experience positive pullbacks from your ex, this happens when you have what we'd call a positive experience with them, things are going well, both of you are opening up and being honest with one another, sharing, connecting, all of that stuff. 

It seems like everything's going great but then what happens after that, she is pulling back sharply by creating distance as she's scared because your ex had created an image of you that was worth breaking up with.

If we actually did that, if we hurt somebody because we had the breakup conversation, we talked to them,


=> Maybe there were tears involved
=> Maybe there were a lot of hurt feelings


We have to somehow justify our actions, we have to tell ourselves a story which was worth it to end that relationship or to break up. so your ex has to create an image of you or your relationship together which was worth breaking up with or ending.

She is pulling back because she's reassessing, they're trying to say or think that "Is this version of you is real" so they're pulling back and trying to reassess what's exactly going on.


Tip - The important thing here is if your ex is going through a positive pullback, you do not want to give them a single inch for that doubt to grow.

=> You do not want to allow that doubt to grow,
=> You do not want to allow it to open up and to give them more reason to say, "I was right and breaking up with you."

Emotional Distance
You want to continue to be on your best behavior, continue to demonstrate to them that you are not the same person with who they broke up if they got back together with you, they are not walking back into the same relationship that they walked out of in the first place.

The third sign is,  she's in love with you but scared is that they might just not be able to make a move. If Sure,

a)The two of you might be connecting well
b)The two of you might be bonding well
c)The two of you might be coming closer together


But if she's just aren't making a move to actually bring the two of you towards possibly being in a relationship with one another, that's a great sign she wants you back but is scared.

For instance, this might be the two of you are connecting better, the two of you are getting closer, but maybe she is in a rebound relationship with someone else, they're not taking any active moves to end that rebound relationship.

They may acknowledge that they've seen some positive changes in how the two of you have been connecting, things have been better between the two of you since the breakup but they're not making a move. Why is this? 


Well, it's because your ex is going to be taking a risk by getting back together with you. They're going to be taking a risk by reorganizing their life in some way and this can be kind of scary for them.

Advice - You want to be able to leverage that "Deep Emotional Connection with a man" through various techniques that we have to actually, inspire her to take a step forward,

=>To get out of their comfort zone
=>To actually bring the two of you closer together


The good news is that you're actually a lot closer towards getting back together than maybe you realize, but you have to be able to actually bridge that gap and be able to leverage the connection which you have. You have to be willing to step out of your comfort zone in order to make this happen.

Here is the Fourth sign, she starts to give you excuses for why things won't work between the two of you. Now again, the two of you are probably getting along pretty well. This isn't just like, "Hey, we broke up yesterday." You're begging and pleading. 

They're giving you excuses about why they don't want to get back together with you. This is after you had some time to connect with one another after you've had some time to bond with one another after you've had some time to have some good positive interactions, they will start giving you excuses potentially even out of nowhere.

Note: It's one thing if you bring it up, but if they just are hanging out with you, they're like, "Hey, I just wanted to let you know, we'll never be together if they convey you like this then it's a positive sign that they want you back but is scared.

Moreover, they're worried about "Risking themselves", They're worried about risking their reputation, risking how they look to

=> Other people
=> Their friends
=> Their families
=> Even to themselves


They're worried about thinking of themselves as the hot mess who's breaking up, getting back together, again breaking up, and getting back together. so she wants to kind of take things slow. They're trying to rationalize with themselves why they shouldn't take that risk. 

Again, this is just a sign you need to kind of leverage that emotional connection a little bit more and inspire them to actually want to get out of inaction, towards taking action in getting back together.

At last, those have been the four signs she wants you back but is scared along with tips & advice, she loves you but is scared to commit, scared to make a move, scared to actually move things in the right direction.

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