How To Give Up On Love

Some people always say I'm done with relationships,  I'm just going to be alone giving up on love, it's time to end this, it's a very important topic on how to give up on love.

Really sad because there is so much potential out there for the people who think I give up on love, it's like just handing over your potential and saying  I'm done now I'm never going to be what I really can be.

Giving up on finding love

Sometimes we sacrifice our own well-being, our own mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being because we're trying to fix everything.

It's so sad, the way people just given up on love because they've had some experiences that haven't worked out right now.

Advice - Find out more about people in general, in human nature, there's so much ability to share experiences in the world with someone in a way that's really magical because you can't experience quite the same thing on your own to discover life in new ways and even grow through the pain of relationships.

How to know when it's time to just let someone go or how to give up on love.

Giving up on relationships

First of all, this is difficult for some people because people's highest potentials are hoping, you're hoping one day they're gonna change, you're hoping one day they can understand but years later you are in the same position.

=> Just communicate, what it is that you expect from someone, you actually have to teach people how you want to be treated, you have to show them if something's not right you can say them,

I expect an X and Y this can be any it's gonna be a relationship or can be a friendship.

You have to communicate what you expect and what you need from someone, otherwise you just given up on relationships or love.

When you give up on love

Some women get into a situation where they say why they want to give up on love, never trust men, the men I'm with can't be trusted and maybe it's time to begin a new cycle.

Whether that cycle is to start trusting more, to start giving people more space because sometimes you don't trust people.

In relationships we get a chance to be with the person we want to be, that is where the real experience lies. It's not that every time it's going to go right because sometimes you'll do everything right and someone will still do you wrong, which makes you think I'm giving up on love.

I gave up on love or how to know when to walk away from someone?

When to give up on love

1) They're lying to you flat out that's gonna be a good enough reason to walk away from someone or give up on love.

So you may see this in different ways,

=> They lied in a direct or indirect way like,  oh I just didn't tell you because you didn't ask, I don't think it was important you probably knew that was important, you probably should have told me that piece so it's like indirect or direct.

2) The most tragic things in relationships are when a woman does everything right and the guy wrongs her she takes it as a message, I'm not doing this again because I can't get it right I don't know what to do next i ve given up on love, I gave it my all but it didn't work out.

                                          

Note - All wasn't right for that scenario, it could be perfect for another scenario so we have to have in our minds that what's the big picture.

What's the big goal because if the goal is to get it right every time that's a problem that means by the way if your goal is to get it right every time you're going to give up, you're going to say enough is enough I can't do this because you'll never win the goal.

What to do When you give up on love, Just think this way,

=> I want to be in this world if that involves a certain level of warmth generosity, affection, being flirtatious, being intimate then I'm going to allow myself to express those things if someone doesn't want to take them the right way or they want to betray me with those things that are fine there's always the possibility of, but you move on in the same way.

 This isn't about making someone happy this is just about general self-respect.

You've communicated with it and then if someone is saying yes to you but they're not doing it then it's disrespectful to you.

They're not really listening to you, they may be trying but maybe the hard part is they trying just to keep you there that's the time when you want to say I give up on finding love.

3) Abuse straight out, no excuses, no apologies needed because that has to be the quickest way. The quickest thing you see as soon as that happens no apology needed, no forgiveness needed and it's the time to give up on love.

4) Not Appreciating, someone not appreciating you, you're putting in all the effort, are they giving it back? no so again if you're giving and putting in all the work and communicate it to them like,

=> Baby doing everything, doing anything then it's the time at some point to say I'm done because there's only so much you can give.

Advice - Everything has to be balanced, it's the same in the universe it's saying in the world in relationships the same with friendship it's the same with everything sweet and salty.

Note - If you're constantly giving and you'll never get anything back, it's time to give up on love.

5) Neglect, you have to say no to someone or give up on love at some point is neglect, if you are constantly being there for someone, taking care, taking care of their needs as soon as you have a problem. They're not there that is neglect.

All that going in deep but healing things within yourself. You don't want to let go of someone you love or you want them to love you but you keep getting neglected and finally, you give up on things by saying say yes to that person.

If you are not being treated in that manner of respect from someone it's time to give up on love and say goodbye to that person.

Advice - You deserve to be surrounded by people who treat you with love and respect. You are amazing if you are doing self-love and you're working on your best then it's better you're trying to heal things and not get triggered.

Dont give up on love there's no point in giving up if you've been through a lot, think about what made you go through all that, think about what actually helped you to encourage your inner self.

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